Letting you struggle
is a gift
of intentional
omission.
Take charge of
your life.
You already have
my permission.
DSH 11/30/16
Letting you struggle
is a gift
of intentional
omission.
Take charge of
your life.
You already have
my permission.
DSH 11/30/16
I am my service–
my greatest, only gift.
How shall I wrap it?
‘ depends on what you need.
If I’m ever in your service,
forever on your team,
how can you accuse me
of being so mean?
And am I not successful
if you have what you need?
If my gift is invisible to you,
what happened to the deed?
Is it really there?
I guess that depends
on if you
know
how much I care.
-DSH 11/30/16
Sockher
“Same Team!”
the coach cried.
But they still
fought over the ball.
–DarEll S. Hoskisson 1/16
Mom’s Night Out
is definitely a movie mothers with small children, especially stay at home moms, can relate to. It was so funny I was crying. It is not the kind of movie that interests the children, all but my nine year old left the room. It is also not for people who would be offended by Christian values since it appears to be a Christian film. I super, super loved it. It is a very good reminder of how and why we mothers shouldn’t and can’t lose perspective or our minds. 🙂 It is very encouraging. Happy Mothering! I’d love to buy a copy for all my sisters.
I was just walking out of Sam’s club when someone asked me if I’d like to save a baby’s life. Well, of course I would.
They gave me information about the “Eliminate Project”. Preventing MNT, a completely preventable disease that kills 60,000 mothers and babies a year.
For more information, you can check out their website at http://floridakeyclub.org/the-eliminate-project/
It only costs $1.80 to vaccinate one mother and her future babies. http://floridakeyclub.org/online-donations/
I stand high, free
The sun rains down on me
as I open my arms, palms to the sky
I already know I can fly
I’ve seen you soaring
high above the trees
Your mighty wings overshadowing me,
I’m nurtured, protected
So often, you let me ride on your back
You’ve made it easy
and I see
I’m still standing on your shoulders.
dsh
I recently discovered anki, it is essentially a flash card program but much better. It has decks of cards already pre-loaded so you can start your child off on times tables right away. Or make your own specialized cards/decks.
It is set up so that you can use it on your phone or mobile device.
It is free.
It syncs both directions so you can practice on your computer, phone, tablet whatever.
You can make your own flashcards with voice/pronunciation and pictures also if you like.
It asks you both directions so that you not only practice knowing what something means, but also recalling it.
SRS stands for spaced Repetition System. It is scientifically set up to ask you and re ask you the questions or meanings at longer and longer intervals just before you might forget– helping you get the info into your long-term memory. You can do this yourself using the game schedule in the book cited below, or the computer does it for you with the help of the anki website.
An EXCELLENT help for language learning and anything you learn worth remembering permanently. There are tutorials on youtube.
The website is Ankisrs.net
It is described in detail in the book Fluent Forever by Gabriel Wyner
My son is already doing much better at his times tables in just a few minutes a day and it is a fun game.
I’m being able to use the Sanskrit yoga terms with more confidence.
This is just the system I was looking for to keep from wasting time and studying with confidence! Good luck to you.
If you want to encourage your child to exercise more or if you have an active one who is always in trouble and you want to redirect,
You could try zamzee.
Zamzee.com has a small electronic device they sell for around 30$ that tracks the child’s activity and rewards them with points.
The point is to free some couches of all the potatoes! But, it could also help those who are already active find a positive thing to do with all their energy.
We are trying it out. So far we have enjoyed it.
A friend told me about NaNoWriMo, an online non-profit that helps you set a goal and gives you a deadline, a way to chart your progress, pep talks from other writers and a certificate when you complete your rough draft with a goal of 50,000 words.
So, I tried it. It was a lot of fun to know that you are in the company of a lot of other crazy people all over the country trying to type yourself into oblivion, or get that novel out.
I type tested myself and I could meet the daily goal of 2,000 words per day in less than 2 hours, maybe even 1 if I knew exactly what to say and could continuously just say it.
The first week went okay. The second week I hit several bouts of writer’s block and it seemed like every night I was going to bed with a question I couldn’t answer that would keep the ball from rolling.
Finally I was getting so behind on my count I made myself stay in my chair and type for an entire day. I didn’t catch up, in fact, I made less progress than I hoped, but I was moving forward again.
I learned to keep pushing through writer’s block and not let it stop me.
By the end of the second week I was getting near the midpoint, 25,000 words.
Quite a fun thing to get to half way through the book, but half my story wasn’t out!
I kept going and the next week I could smell the end. When I could smell the end I lost all balance. Who needs to shower, exercise, or cook meals? Well, at least it was only 3 days and I did fit in that shower–finally but the last 3 days that is all I wanted to do every second I had–mostly ’cause I didn’t want to be doing it again next week.
So, here I am in the fourth week–DONE! and a Winner with a certificate from NaNoWriMo to prove it. I know I can write a novel length in 3 weeks–something of a miracle.
And, I have confidence that if you want to and it is the right time for you, you can do it, too.
November turned out to be a good month for me because the calendar actually was calmer than usual.
I think the hardest thing for me was giving myself permission to be that lazy (not so busy helping others) while I accomplished it. I was worried I’d ignore my children (but my youngest is 8, so I figured, I could give it a try).
As it turned out, my family was fairly supportive, I could usually do it when they didn’t notice or care (minus those last 3 days) and maybe because it was fiction, I didn’t take it too seriously and was able to keep balance and perspective most of the time.
So, if you want to write a book, I highly recommend it. Happy Writing…
https://nanowrimo.org
Assertiveness resource: avoiding aggression and passive victimization
Several years ago I noticed that so often we can turn into a victim/martyr vs the bully/needy one battle. This dog eat dog world, I’ve never bought into—consciously, but often I play the role. I read another book that described 3 roles–the victim, the bully, and the hero. But, what if we didn’t play those games?
I realized that another option had to be the right one. What would that look like– to not be the victim, the bully or even the hero? (Of course with only those 3 options, who wouldn’t want to be the hero?)
I wrote it this way:
Plan A–Ate (I am the winner/bully)
Plan B–Bait (I am the victim/martyr)
What could be plan C?
I wrote Charity
I have been personally trying to discover my way out of all those other roles. How can we just be free and let others be free as well?
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